Family lineage: 1 Emarine Bartram ,2, Queen Rebecca Dickerson,
3 Edna Bethel
Franklin, 4 Judith Hayward
1857 - 1935
Who was Emarine Bartram?
Emarine Bartram |
- She was born in West Virginia, a daughter of Rev Lewis Bartram and Eliza Frances Walker
- It is likely that she was named in memory of a cousin, "Emerine" Osburn, who died at age 5 in the same year of Emarine's birth.
- At age 17, she married 19 year old William Vincent Dickerson (an aspiring Baptist preacher), in Greenbriar Creek, West Virginia.
- She became the mother of 7 children over a period of 18 years.
- She was widowed at age 36 after a freak accident.
- She died suddenly at age 78 while visiting family in Indiana and was brought back to West Virginia for burial.
Those are obviously the bare bones of
Emarine's life and they don't even partially describe the woman who
made such an impact on her large family and all who knew and loved her during
her 78 years.
We do know that she was of medium
height and slender, with gray eyes and black hair. She had a
contagious sense of humor which did not find "off-color" jokes at all funny, and would not allow slang words like “gosh”or “darn” to be used in her presence. Although she had
little formal schooling, she was self taught, mostly by reading her Bible and discussing what she had learned in her precious book with family members. She kept up with current events all of her
life and passed on her love of learning to her children, several of whom
who became teachers.
Fortunately for family historians,
Emarine's youngest daughter, Queen, (my grandmother) who was only 3
when her father died, was a willing source for Violet and Kent
Bartram who were compiling the book “Bartram Branches, Genealogy of
the Families of West Virginia, Connecticut and Pennsylvania”. In writing this post, I found Queen's stories which had been re-told in the "Bartram book" were helpful in filling in some of the unknown areas in Emarine's life.
William Vincent Dickerson |
On July 5, 1894, at age 39, Rev. William Dickerson rode
into town to buy some supplies for this construction project. After dividing his
purchases so
they would ride evenly on a mule he had borrowed, he tossed the sack
across the saddle. This sudden weight startled the mule. It jumped
backward, jerking a hitching rack off its posts, which came down on
William's head and knocked him out. His brothers, who had seen the
accident, took him home and contacted a doctor who believed William
couldn't have been hurt very badly so it was assumed he would simply
suffer some headaches and painful bruises for a few days. When more
drastic symptoms appeared, a more experienced doctor was called –
too late. William died 9 days after the accident, leaving Emarine
with 7 children ranging from age 1 to 18. According to Queen's testimony in the"Bartram book", although she was only three at the time, "Father's funeral was preached under 4 huge apple trees. Someone who had a mill made seats. I remember them. They were still there when Grandpa (Lewis Bartram) died in September. Mother had an awful task. She worked in the fields and house, but was independent".
Without a doubt, life had to have been very hard on the family after William''s and Lewis' deaths only two months apart. Stories passed down through the generations told about a strong woman who would always feed anyone who came to the
door begging; that she was a very good cook and would do anything she
could for her neighbors. It is also documented that after her husband died, she had moved back to the family home and lived there three years until, in 1907, she and most of her children moved to Northwest Arkansas. In 1915, she answered a plea from her son, Willie, to help care for his three daughters
after their mother died during childbirth; and often visited her other children who
were, by that time, grown and living in Ohio, Arkansas, Missouri and
Indiana.
Emarine Dickerson in 1935 |
This
picture was taken of Emarine as she was waiting for a train to take
her to Indiana to live with Queen, whose 2 oldest children were in
college and 2 youngest were living at home. A family story told by
Queen's youngest son, Carthel, is that while the family was eating
Christmas dinner in 1935, Emarine excused herself from the table and said she was going to lay down for awhile.When they went to check on her, they found her dead. The legend
also says that her twin sons, Lewis Floyd (aka Floyd) and Hiram Boyd
(aka Boyd), both had a strong intuition at the same time that something was very wrong with their
mother and although they were hundreds of miles away, drove to the
Franklin farm where they discovered they were too late - their mother had just died. Her body was taken
back to Barbourville, West Virginia to be buried.
After her death, the gold wedding ring which she had worn from the day of
her marriage which was inscribed “From W to E July 24, 1874”, was
slipped from her finger by Queen and – when Queen died in 1998 – it passed on to
her daughter, Edna and then - upon her death in 2004 - to her oldest
daughter, Judy (who wears it every day with great pride). In keeping with the family tradition, the ring will be passed on to a woman in the next generation of the family when Judy has no more need for it.
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